As people who are happy living with less stuff, we should also be happy to have less of those relationships that don’t work out. You may find yourself being in the same kind of relationship over and over again, where you think you were getting closer to each other but everything goes haywire all of a sudden. This can be a result of you attracting the same kind of person into your life. Someone who takes a lot but only gives a little, a person who is all talk without action or someone who appeared to have been your knight in shining armor only to find that dream shattering in the end.
The best thing to do is to look inside yourself and find the reason why you are attracting the same type of people. You may be ignoring some qualities in yourself that mirrors the people that you get involved with in relationships.
If you truly want your true lover to manifest, you need to make a list. This sounds simple and—it actually really is— so make a list of the qualities that you want to find in your lover. If you want someone who is loyal, adventurous, honest, romantic, you better list them all! Remember, only put down the traits that you want in a lover, not physical attributes.
Some people turn towards psychics and tarot card readings to find out what the future holds for them. However, not everyone believes in psychics so this is still a personal choice. If you’re a skeptic, you can try free online readings first before to have an idea of what to expect should you visit a psychic.
After finishing your list, what you need to do is to apply those qualities to yourself. This will put you in the same vibration and attract people with the same characteristics. If you want an adventurous person in your life, you certainly won’t find one while isolating yourself in your room all day. The next thing you need to do is to be aware of the psychic broadcast that you are emitting. Everyone emits energy and some people don’t realize that they pick it up when they meet someone new. If you feel unhappy, you emit that energy to everyone that you meet. In short, you need to feel happy in order to attract happy people in your life.
Next, you need to believe that this person will come into your life. You don’t need to know how you will meet or where. All you have to do is to strongly believe that the right person will come to you. It helps to create an affirmation that you can think about or repeat daily. The universe will pick up on this and that person will come into your life. Remember that when it comes to your affirmations, you only need to express a future state of someone who will be coming into your life. You cannot wish to “have” someone at once.
What you say directly impacts how you feel and in turn, leave you feeling it too. If you think or say that you are unloved, it creates a powerful feeling. Your thoughts will become your feelings so you need to think about happy thoughts. Think of yourself as having a perfect partner and feel the way you would when you spend time with them. This is the feeling that you should have when you say these affirmations.